THE JANESDIARY STANDARD
Professional matchmaking works best when everyone involved understands the process, respects other members and participates with genuine intention.
These guidelines exist to protect the privacy, time and experience of every member within Janesdiary Matchmaking Network.
By participating in our matchmaking process, members agree to conduct themselves honestly, respectfully and responsibly.
01 — BE GENUINELY AVAILABLE
Janesdiary is designed for individuals who are emotionally and practically available for a serious relationship leading to marriage.
Members are expected to disclose their correct marital and relationship status during profiling.
Honesty begins before the introduction.
02 — PROVIDE ACCURATE INFORMATION
Information submitted during profiling should be truthful and current.
This includes your:
Age • Location • Marital Status • Children • Profession • Education • Faith • Genotype • Relationship Intentions
Material information that could reasonably affect another person’s decision to pursue a relationship should not be deliberately concealed.
03 — RECENT PHOTOGRAPHS ONLY
Members are required to provide clear and recent photographs that accurately represent their current appearance.
Please do not submit:
AI-generated photographs • Heavily filtered photographs • Misleading photographs • Significantly outdated photographs
Your potential match deserves to meet the person they were introduced to.
04 — ONE ACTIVE INTRODUCTION AT A TIME
Janesdiary operates a one active introduction at a time policy.
We intentionally avoid sending several potential matches simultaneously.
Each introduction should be given reasonable attention before another is considered.
Once an introduction has been concluded, the matchmaking process may continue according to your membership.
05 — MUTUAL INTEREST BEFORE CONTACT
Where applicable, both individuals are given an opportunity to consider the potential introduction before personal contact information is exchanged.
An introduction should begin with mutual willingness to connect.
06 — EITHER PERSON CAN SAY HELLO FIRST
Once contact details have been exchanged, either party may initiate communication.
There is no Janesdiary rule requiring the man or woman to send the first message.
You have both accepted the introduction.
Someone can simply say hello.
Civilisation will continue. 😂
07 — COMMUNICATE INTENTIONALLY
After accepting an introduction, members should make a reasonable effort to communicate.
Nobody is required to force a connection.
But repeatedly accepting introductions and then disappearing without communication undermines the matchmaking process.
If you are no longer interested, communicate respectfully.
08 — FEEDBACK IS PART OF MATCHMAKING
Feedback helps us understand whether an introduction should continue and, where necessary, refine subsequent searches.
Members are expected to provide honest and respectful feedback when requested.
Silence is not useful feedback.
09 — RESPECT PRIVACY
Information, photographs and personal details received through Janesdiary are provided for the purpose of exploring a potential relationship.
Members should not distribute another member’s:
Photographs • Phone numbers • Personal information • Employment details • Private conversations
without permission.
Discretion works both ways.
10 — RESPECT BOUNDARIES
An introduction is an opportunity to communicate.
It is not an entitlement to another person’s attention, affection or relationship.
If someone communicates that they do not wish to continue, their decision should be respected.
11 — NO HARASSMENT OR ABUSIVE CONDUCT
Threatening, degrading, coercive, discriminatory or persistently disrespectful behaviour toward another member or the Janesdiary team may result in termination of matchmaking services.
Premium matchmaking still requires basic manners. Money does not purchase permission to behave badly.
12 — CONDUCT YOUR OWN DUE DILIGENCE
Janesdiary may conduct identity and other verification where applicable.
However, no screening process can eliminate every possible risk.
Members should continue exercising personal judgement when getting to know someone, particularly regarding financial decisions, travel, business arrangements and major personal commitments.
13 — NEVER SEND MONEY BECAUSE OF A MATCH
Being introduced through Janesdiary does not mean you should automatically trust another person financially.
Members should be cautious about requests involving:
Loans • Investments • Emergency transfers • Business funding • Financial assistance
Report suspicious behaviour to Janesdiary promptly.
14 — MATCHMAKING DOES NOT GUARANTEE MARRIAGE
Janesdiary facilitates professionally curated introductions.
We cannot manufacture chemistry or compel two individuals to choose each other.
Membership therefore does not guarantee a relationship, engagement or marriage.
What we provide is a structured, confidential and professionally managed search.
15 — YOUR MEMBERSHIP DEFINES YOUR SEARCH
Your selected membership determines the scope, priority, depth and level of matchmaking support available during your search.
Higher membership levels may provide broader or more specialised sourcing.
However, membership does not guarantee access to a particular individual, profession, nationality, income level or social status.
All introductions remain subject to compatibility, mutual suitability, preferences and availability.
16 — MEMBERSHIP IS PERSONAL
Your membership cannot be transferred to another individual.
Matchmaking benefits apply only to the registered member for whom profiling and onboarding were completed.
17 — PROFESSIONAL CONDUCT GOES BOTH WAYS
We expect members to treat the Janesdiary team professionally.
In return, we are committed to handling your matchmaking journey with respect, confidentiality, discretion and professional judgement.
OUR STANDARD IS SIMPLE
BE HONEST.
BE RESPECTFUL.
BE RESPONSIVE.
BE INTENTIONAL.
The purpose of these guidelines is not to make dating complicated.
It is to create an environment where serious people have a better opportunity to meet other serious people.
JANESDIARY MATCHMAKING NETWORK
Private • Curated • Intentional