A remarkable life.
Someone remarkable
to share it with.
You have made room for ambition. Make room for a meaningful connection. Thoughtful introductions for professionals, founders and executives.
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18+ years of matchmaking experience · Since 2008
Nigeria & International
Behind every introduction,
a person who listens.
Meet Funmi Jane Adegbemi. Matchmaker, former banker, author, wife and mother. Helping people approach meaningful connections since 2008.
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A shared vision.
A thoughtful path
to parenthood.
For adults exploring the possibility of having and raising a child together without a romantic relationship. Begin with a private enquiry.
Explore Co-parentingA meaningful connection
deserves a thoughtful approach.
Your time, values and relationship goals matter. We help you approach the search with greater clarity and intention.
Intentional Matching
We consider your goals, preferences, values and lifestyle when facilitating suitable introductions.
Personal Guidance
Your membership determines the level of consultation, coaching and support available.
Discreet Service
We explain how your profile is handled and shared, with confidentiality guided by your chosen membership and consent.
A successful life.
A meaningful personal life.
Our purpose guides how we listen, introduce and support the people who choose JanesDiary.
Our Mission
To help accomplished professionals build meaningful relationships and navigate their personal lives with clarity through thoughtful matchmaking, personalised guidance and respect for their privacy, values and aspirations.
Our Vision
To become a trusted global home for intentional connection, where professional success and a fulfilling personal life can grow together.
Building a successful life takes intention. Choosing who shares it deserves the same care.
At JanesDiary,
we work with HEART.
Five values. A clear commitment to the people we serve.
Honesty
Clear communication, transparent terms and realistic expectations.
Empathy
We listen with care and seek to understand your journey.
Accountability
We take responsibility for our commitments and encourage the same in our members.
Respect
Your dignity, boundaries, values and choices matter.
Trust
We earn your confidence through discretion, consistency and responsible handling of your information.
Thoughtful introductions. Personal guidance. HEART.
A personal understanding.
Years of experience.
I’m Funmi Jane Adegbemi, founder of JanesDiary Matchmaking Network. My matchmaking journey began in 2008, and my work centres on helping people approach relationships with clarity, intention and purpose.
I graduated in English from the University of Abuja and previously worked as a banker with United Bank for Africa Plc. Today, I work with professionals, founders, executives and established individuals seeking meaningful connections.
I am also an author on relationships and personal development. Through my books and guidance, I encourage thoughtful choices, honest communication and a deeper understanding of what a lasting partnership requires.
Married for over a decade and blessed with children, I bring my own experience of marriage and family life to the conversations I have with singles.
Funmi Jane Adegbemi
Speak With Jane Explore My BooksYour next chapter
begins with intention.
01 · Apply
Tell us about yourself, your location, relationship intentions and preferences.
02 · Onboard
Choose your membership, review the terms and complete the applicable payment and verification requirements.
03 · Connect
Explore curated introductions according to your membership, preferences and suitable candidate availability.
A quieter moment.
A new perspective.
Explore Jane’s writing on relationships and personal development. Choose a title that speaks to your current chapter.
Styled book mockups. Actual cover designs, prices and full descriptions are available in the store.
Your hopes for parenthood
deserve a conversation.
JanesDiary welcomes expressions of interest from adults exploring having and raising a child together without an expectation of romance or marriage between them.
The focus is the child’s wellbeing and the adults’ willingness to communicate respectfully, share responsibilities and plan for the long term.
We are gathering enquiries while developing this separate pathway. No co-parent introductions or payments are offered through this section.
Register Your Interest By Email Ask Jane About Co-parentingStart with your preferred name, location and contact preference. Do not send identity documents, medical records or financial documents with your initial enquiry.
Shared Values
Explore expectations about upbringing, education, faith, culture and the environment you want a child to experience.
Shared Responsibility
Consider caregiving time, finances, location and how future relationships or life changes could affect parenting.
Informed Decisions
Independent legal advice and appropriate reproductive healthcare consultations belong in the planning process before proceeding.
Choose the support
your next chapter deserves.
Four levels of curation, discretion and personal guidance. Review the service scope and confirm eligibility before making payment.
Connect
Nigeria: ₦50,000
International: ₦150,000
Duration: 12 months
Introductions: Up to 3 curated matches
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Profile optimisation and initial screening.
- Compatibility-based candidate selection.
- Personal guidance on the introduction process.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Professionals on established career paths.
- Career-focused singles.
- Entrepreneurs and business owners.
Executive
Nigeria: ₦150,000
International: ₦350,000
Duration: 12 months
Introductions: 8 priority curated matches
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Priority curated introductions.
- One-on-one consultation with Jane.
- Profile review and verification procedures.
- Priority profile consideration.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Senior managers and corporate professionals.
- Bankers and finance professionals.
- Doctors and healthcare professionals.
- Established entrepreneurs.
Private
Nigeria: ₦350,000
International: ₦500,000
Duration: 12 months
Introductions: 10 highly curated matches
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Greater confidentiality.
- A personalised matchmaking strategy.
- Relationship coaching within the agreed package.
- Feedback and re-match support within membership terms.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Directors and departmental heads.
- Company founders.
- Established business owners.
- Senior professionals.
Signature Concierge
Nigeria: ₦550,000
International: ₦700,000
Duration: 18 months
Introductions: 15 exclusive matches
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- High-level curated introductions.
- Discreet candidate sourcing beyond the existing pool.
- A personal matchmaking strategy.
- One scheduled 30-minute guidance appointment per month during active membership.
- Appointments require 48-hour notice and are subject to availability.
- Brief WhatsApp support Monday–Friday, 10am–5pm Nigerian time, with responses within two working days.
- Longer consulting sessions are booked separately.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- CEOs and managing directors.
- C-suite executives.
- Established company founders.
- Senior leaders and entrepreneurs.
Their words. Their journeys.
Their privacy respected.
Personal updates about meaningful introductions, growing connections and married life.
Nine years of marriage
Our marriage is going well. This is our ninth year together—almost a decade—and I have no regrets at all. My husband is solid, my sister!
Enjoying married life
We are doing well, ma, and I’m enjoying our marriage. She is a good wife and a blessing to my family and our church. When people asked how we met, I told them Aunty Jane connected us.
An amazing match
It has been absolutely amazing. It feels as though I’ve known her all my life. I’m grateful to God for her, and thank you for bringing this wonderful woman into my life. God bless you for this amazing match.
Planning our introduction
Things are going so well, Mama Jane. Our introduction ceremony is next month! Please continue to remember us in your prayers.
A growing connection
He shows seriousness and commitment, and we talk every day. God has been so faithful.
Ready for the next step
Things are going well with her, and I think I’ll be taking the relationship to the next level. Thank you very much, ma. Being patient is the key.
Feeling hopeful
We’ve started talking, and our conversations have been very interesting. Things are progressing gradually, and I’m hopeful.
Love is growing
Thank you for being there for me and for patiently connecting us. The love is growing, and I’m already in love with her.
Client messages anonymised and lightly edited for clarity. These accounts reflect individual experiences at the time of writing; relationship outcomes vary.
Give your next decision
the attention it deserves.
Explore a focused conversation with Jane about your relationship questions, expectations and next steps.
Explore Consulting Read Success StoriesYour personal life.
Handled with care.
Understand how the service works before sharing personal information or committing to a membership.
Clear Expectations
Review fees, service limits, membership duration and the responsibilities attached to your chosen plan.
Honest Information
Be truthful about your identity, relationship status, intentions and preferences throughout the process.
Respect For Privacy
Read our privacy policy and confirm how your profile and contact information will be handled before an introduction.
Your questions, answered.
How do I join JanesDiary?
Complete the application form, choose your membership and follow the instructions for payment, profile review and applicable verification.
Does membership guarantee marriage?
No. Matchmaking facilitates introductions. Mutual interest, compatibility and relationship outcomes depend on the people involved.
What is the difference between the memberships?
The four memberships offer different introduction limits, durations, levels of curation and personal support. Review each package and ask Jane to clarify the service scope before joining.
How soon will I receive an introduction?
Timing depends on your completed onboarding, verification, preferences and suitable candidate availability. Ask the team for a realistic estimate for your individual search. A membership does not guarantee an immediate match.
Can people living abroad apply?
Yes. International applicants can enquire about eligibility, available memberships and current fees before making payment.
Why are the client stories anonymous?
We respect clients’ preference for discretion. These messages are presented without names or identifying details and have been lightly edited for clarity.
Is platonic co-parenting included in membership?
No. Co-parenting enquiries are separate from romantic matchmaking memberships. We are gathering interest while developing the process; no co-parent introductions or payments are offered through that section.
Where can I read the full policies?
Use the membership terms, privacy policy and matchmaking guidelines linked below. Ask the team to clarify anything you do not understand before paying.
Clarity before commitment.
Read the process and policies before you begin.
Be intentional about
who you let into your life.
If you are ready to approach your relationship journey with honesty, clarity and purpose, take the first step with JanesDiary.
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