A remarkable life.
Someone remarkable
to share it with.
You have made room for ambition. Make room for a meaningful connection. Thoughtful introductions for professionals, founders and executives.
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18+ years of matchmaking experience · Since 2008
Nigeria & International
Behind every introduction,
a person who listens.
Meet Funmi Jane Adegbemi. Matchmaker, former banker, author, wife and mother. Helping people approach meaningful connections since 2008.
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A shared vision.
A thoughtful path
to parenthood.
For adults exploring the possibility of having and raising a child together without a romantic relationship. Begin with a private enquiry.
Explore Co-parentingA meaningful connection
deserves a thoughtful approach.
Your time, values and relationship goals matter. We help you approach the search with greater clarity and intention.
Intentional Matching
We consider your goals, preferences, values and lifestyle when facilitating suitable introductions.
Personal Guidance
Your membership determines the level of consultation, coaching and support available.
Discreet Service
Private memberships offer a more confidential experience for clients who value discretion.
A personal understanding.
Years of experience.
I’m Funmi Jane Adegbemi, founder of JanesDiary Matchmaking Network. My matchmaking journey began in 2008, and my work centres on helping people approach relationships with clarity, intention and purpose.
I graduated in English from the University of Abuja and previously worked as a banker with United Bank for Africa Plc. Today, I work with professionals, founders, executives and established individuals seeking meaningful connections.
I am also an author on relationships and personal development. Through my books and guidance, I encourage thoughtful choices, honest communication and a deeper understanding of what a lasting partnership requires.
Married for over a decade and blessed with children, I bring my own experience of marriage and family life to the conversations I have with singles.
Funmi Jane Adegbemi
Speak With Jane Explore My BooksYour next chapter
begins with intention.
01 · Apply
Tell us about yourself, your location, relationship intentions and preferences.
02 · Onboard
Choose your membership, review the terms and complete the applicable payment and verification requirements.
03 · Connect
Participate through community exposure or curated introductions, according to your membership and suitable candidate availability.
A quieter moment.
A new perspective.
Explore Jane’s writing on relationships and personal development. Choose a title that speaks to your current chapter.
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Your hopes for parenthood
deserve a conversation.
JanesDiary welcomes expressions of interest from adults exploring having and raising a child together without an expectation of romance or marriage between them.
The focus is the child’s wellbeing and the adults’ willingness to communicate respectfully, share responsibilities and plan for the long term.
We are gathering enquiries while developing this separate pathway. No co-parent introductions or payments are offered through this section.
Register Your Interest By Email Ask Jane About Co-parentingStart with your preferred name, location and contact preference. Do not send identity documents, medical records or financial documents with your initial enquiry.
Shared Values
Explore expectations about upbringing, education, faith, culture and the environment you want a child to experience.
Shared Responsibility
Consider caregiving time, finances, location and how future relationships or life changes could affect parenting.
Informed Decisions
Independent legal advice and appropriate reproductive healthcare consultations belong in the planning process before proceeding.
Choose your level
of personal attention.
Curation, privacy, professional access, candidate sourcing and personalised support. Confirm your package details and eligibility before paying.
Community Matchmaking
Nigeria: ₦10,000
International: $30 or ₦30,000
Duration: 30 days
Service: Public community matchmaking.
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Public profile exposure.
- Opportunity to receive direct enquiries.
- Access to publicly shared matchmaking opportunities.
- Basic profile presentation guidance.
NETWORK ACCESS
- A diverse community of singles from different backgrounds, professions, and locations.
Membership limit: Community matchmaking follows the public matchmaking process. It does not include private curated introductions.
Apply For Community MatchmakingConnect Membership
Nigeria: ₦50,000
International: $150 or ₦200,000
Duration: 1 year
Introductions: Up to 3 curated matches.
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Profile review and optimisation.
- Compatibility-based candidate selection.
- Initial screening of potential matches.
- Access to the JanesDiary Connect Network.
- Basic matchmaking guidance.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Teachers and educators.
- Healthcare professionals.
- Civil servants and public-sector employees.
- Banking and administrative professionals.
- Entrepreneurs and small-business owners.
- IT professionals and other career-focused singles.
Membership limit: Your membership ends when all three introductions have been provided.
Apply For Connect MembershipExecutive Membership
Nigeria: ₦150,000
International: $300 or ₦350,000
Duration: 1 year
Introductions: Up to 7 curated matches.
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Priority curated introductions.
- Profile optimisation and compatibility assessment.
- Identity verification of proposed matches, subject to successful verification.
- One-on-one consultation with Jane.
- Personalised matchmaking guidance.
- Feedback following introductions.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Doctors and other healthcare specialists.
- Lawyers and legal practitioners.
- Bankers and finance professionals.
- Senior managers and corporate professionals.
- Experienced engineers and technology professionals.
- Established entrepreneurs and business owners.
- Mid-to-senior-level professionals in reputable organisations.
Membership limit: Your membership ends when all seven matches have been successfully completed.
Apply For Executive MembershipPrivate Executive Membership
Nigeria: ₦350,000
International: $400 or ₦550,000
Duration: 180 days
Introductions:
Unlimited introductions during the membership period,
subject to suitable candidate availability.
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Unlimited curated introductions during the membership period.
- Enhanced confidentiality.
- Priority access to suitable candidates.
- Detailed compatibility assessment.
- Identity verification and additional checks where available.
- Personalised matchmaking strategy.
- One-on-one guidance with Jane.
- Seven days of relationship coaching.
- Feedback-led refinement of preferences.
- Rematch support where appropriate.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Directors and departmental heads.
- Senior managers and corporate leaders.
- Established business owners.
- Founders of growing companies.
- Senior bankers and finance executives.
- Medical consultants and senior healthcare professionals.
- Experienced lawyers and legal consultants.
- Established professionals with significant career experience.
Signature Membership
Nigeria: ₦550,000
International: $550 or ₦700,000
Duration: 24 months
Introductions:
Unlimited introductions during the membership period,
subject to suitable candidate availability.
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Unlimited curated introductions during the membership period.
- Proactive sourcing beyond the existing database.
- Priority consideration for suitable candidates.
- Extensive compatibility assessment.
- Identity verification and additional checks where available.
- Personalised matchmaking strategy.
- Unlimited consultations with Jane during the membership period.
- Relationship and dating coaching.
- Concierge-style support.
- Enhanced confidentiality.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- CEOs and managing directors.
- C-suite executives.
- Senior corporate executives.
- Established company founders.
- Successful entrepreneurs and business owners.
- Senior medical consultants and healthcare executives.
- Senior legal practitioners.
- High-level finance and investment professionals.
- Established professionals with substantial leadership experience.
Principal Membership
Nigeria: ₦1,500,000
International: $1,883 or ₦2,500,000
Duration: 36 months
Introductions:
Unlimited introductions during the membership period,
subject to suitable candidate availability.
MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES
- Unlimited curated introductions during the membership period.
- Personally managed matchmaking by Jane.
- Bespoke global candidate sourcing.
- Comprehensive verification procedures, subject to availability.
- Detailed compatibility and relationship-goal assessment.
- Personalised matchmaking strategy.
- Clarity and human-behaviour coaching.
- Executive-level relationship guidance.
- Ongoing refinement of partner preferences.
- Concierge support.
- Highest level of confidentiality offered by JanesDiary.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- CEOs of established companies.
- Managing directors and board-level executives.
- Investors and investment professionals.
- Global entrepreneurs and business founders.
- C-suite executives.
- High-net-worth business owners.
- Senior executives in multinational organisations.
- Established professionals with significant business interests.
- Internationally based professionals and entrepreneurs.
Their words. Their journeys.
Their privacy respected.
Personal updates about meaningful introductions, growing connections and married life.
Nine years of marriage
Our marriage is going well. This is our ninth year together—almost a decade—and I have no regrets at all. My husband is solid, my sister!
Enjoying married life
We are doing well, ma, and I’m enjoying our marriage. She is a good wife and a blessing to my family and our church. When people asked how we met, I told them Aunty Jane connected us.
An amazing match
It has been absolutely amazing. It feels as though I’ve known her all my life. I’m grateful to God for her, and thank you for bringing this wonderful woman into my life. God bless you for this amazing match.
Planning our introduction
Things are going so well, Mama Jane. Our introduction ceremony is next month! Please continue to remember us in your prayers.
A growing connection
He shows seriousness and commitment, and we talk every day. God has been so faithful.
Ready for the next step
Things are going well with her, and I think I’ll be taking the relationship to the next level. Thank you very much, ma. Being patient is the key.
Feeling hopeful
We’ve started talking, and our conversations have been very interesting. Things are progressing gradually, and I’m hopeful.
Love is growing
Thank you for being there for me and for patiently connecting us. The love is growing, and I’m already in love with her.
Client messages anonymised and lightly edited for clarity. These accounts reflect individual experiences at the time of writing; relationship outcomes vary.
Give your next decision
the attention it deserves.
Explore a focused conversation with Jane about your relationship questions, expectations and next steps.
Explore Consulting Read Success StoriesYour personal life.
Handled with care.
Understand how the service works before sharing personal information or committing to a membership.
Clear Expectations
Review fees, service limits, membership duration and the responsibilities attached to your chosen plan.
Honest Information
Be truthful about your identity, relationship status, intentions and preferences throughout the process.
Respect For Privacy
Read our privacy policy and confirm what information will be shared. Community matchmaking involves public exposure; private memberships offer a different process.
Your questions, answered.
How do I join JanesDiary?
Complete the application form, choose your membership and follow the instructions for payment, profile review and applicable verification.
Does membership guarantee marriage?
No. Matchmaking facilitates introductions. Mutual interest, compatibility and relationship outcomes depend on the people involved.
What is the difference between community and private matchmaking?
Community membership follows a public profile exposure process and does not include private curated introductions. Private plans offer the services, privacy level and introduction limits stated for the selected membership. Confirm what information will be shared before joining.
Are unlimited introductions guaranteed immediately?
No. Unlimited introductions apply during the active membership period and remain subject to compatibility, suitable candidate availability and the published terms.
Can people living abroad apply?
Yes. International applicants can enquire about eligibility, available memberships and current fees before making payment.
Why are the client stories anonymous?
We respect clients’ preference for discretion. These messages are presented without names or identifying details and have been lightly edited for clarity.
Is platonic co-parenting included in membership?
No. Co-parenting enquiries are separate from romantic matchmaking memberships. We are gathering interest while developing the process; no co-parent introductions or payments are offered through that section.
Where can I read the full policies?
Use the membership terms, privacy policy and matchmaking guidelines linked below. Ask the team to clarify anything you do not understand before paying.
Clarity before commitment.
Read the process and policies before you begin.
Be intentional about
who you let into your life.
If you are ready to approach your relationship journey with honesty, clarity and purpose, take the first step with JanesDiary.
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