Meet With Intention.
Build Something Real.
A personalised matchmaking service for intentional singles who are ready to approach relationships with clarity, maturity and purpose.
APPLY FOR MEMBERSHIP EXPLORE MEMBERSHIP PLANSServing eligible singles in Nigeria and internationally.
Dating With Direction, Not Guesswork
Finding a compatible partner takes more than attraction. It takes self-awareness, clear intentions, realistic expectations and the willingness to build a healthy relationship. JanesDiary helps intentional singles approach that process more thoughtfully.
Intentional Matching
We consider your relationship goals, preferences, values and lifestyle when facilitating suitable introductions.
Personalised Guidance
Our process encourages clarity about what you want, what you offer and what a healthy partnership requires.
Discreet Service
Private membership options are available for clients who prefer a more confidential matchmaking experience.
Funmi Jane AdegbemiMatchmaker · Author · Founder
Meet Jane.
Experience with a personal touch.
I’m Funmi Jane Adegbemi, founder of JanesDiary Matchmaking Network, an author on relationships and personal development, and a matchmaker whose journey began in 2008.
I graduated in English from the University of Abuja and worked as a banker with United Bank for Africa Plc before building this chapter of my work around people, relationships and personal growth.
Married for over a decade and blessed with children, I bring my own experience of family life to the conversations I have with singles. I believe choosing a partner deserves thought, honest questions and a clear understanding of the life you want to build.
Through my matchmaking work and writing, my aim is to help you understand yourself more deeply, approach love with intention and make thoughtful decisions about your next chapter.
A new perspective.
A more intentional next chapter.
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How JanesDiary Matchmaking Works
A straightforward process designed to help you move from application to suitable introductions.
Submit Your Application
Tell us about yourself, your relationship intentions, your preferences and your location.
Choose Your Membership
Review the available plans, fees, service limits and applicable terms before making payment.
Profile Review and Introductions
Following the applicable onboarding requirements, suitable introductions may be facilitated according to your membership and availability.
For Singles Who Are Ready to Be Intentional
Our service is designed for people who are prepared to communicate honestly and take responsibility for their relationship choices.
Marriage-Minded Singles
You are looking for a committed relationship and want to meet people whose intentions are compatible with yours.
Busy Professionals
You value a more structured way to explore potential connections without relying entirely on random encounters.
Diaspora Singles
You live abroad or are open to an international connection and want to communicate your expectations clearly.
For People Building Meaningful Lives.
Your personal life deserves the same intention you bring to your professional life. Our membership options offer different levels of curation, privacy and support.
Career-Focused Professionals
Educators, healthcare professionals, civil servants, banking professionals, engineers and people on established career paths.
Founders & Business Owners
Entrepreneurs and established business owners who value compatible intentions, meaningful conversations and a thoughtful introduction process.
Executives & Senior Leaders
Senior managers, directors, C-suite professionals and business leaders seeking a discreet, personalised approach to finding a partner.
Choose the Level of Support That Fits You
Compare the options below before applying. International pricing and eligibility should be confirmed with JanesDiary before payment.
Community Matchmaking
International: $30 or ₦30,000
Duration: 30 days
Service: Public community matchmaking.
- Public profile exposure.
- Opportunity to receive direct enquiries.
- Access to publicly shared matchmaking opportunities.
- Basic profile presentation guidance.
NETWORK ACCESS
- A diverse community of singles from different backgrounds, professions, and locations.
Membership limit: Community matchmaking follows the public matchmaking process. It does not include private curated introductions.
APPLY NOWConnect Membership
International: $150 or ₦200,000
Duration: 1 year
Introductions: Up to 3 curated matches.
- Profile review and optimisation.
- Compatibility-based candidate selection.
- Initial screening of potential matches.
- Access to the JanesDiary Connect Network.
- Basic matchmaking guidance.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Teachers and educators.
- Healthcare professionals.
- Civil servants and public-sector employees.
- Banking and administrative professionals.
- Entrepreneurs and small-business owners.
- IT professionals and other career-focused singles.
Membership limit: Your membership ends when all three introductions have been provided.
APPLY NOWExecutive Membership
International: $300 or ₦350,000
Duration: 1 year
Introductions: Up to 7 curated matches.
- Priority curated introductions.
- Profile optimisation and compatibility assessment.
- Identity verification of proposed matches, subject to successful verification.
- One-on-one consultation with Jane.
- Personalised matchmaking guidance.
- Feedback following introductions.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Doctors and other healthcare specialists.
- Lawyers and legal practitioners.
- Bankers and finance professionals.
- Senior managers and corporate professionals.
- Experienced engineers and technology professionals.
- Established entrepreneurs and business owners.
- Mid-to-senior-level professionals in reputable organisations.
Membership limit: Your membership ends when all seven matches have been successfully completed.
APPLY NOWPrivate Executive Membership
International: $400 or ₦550,000
Duration: 180 days
Introductions: Unlimited introductions during the membership period, subject to suitable candidate availability.
- Unlimited curated introductions during the membership period.
- Enhanced confidentiality.
- Priority access to suitable candidates.
- Detailed compatibility assessment.
- Identity verification and additional checks where available.
- Personalised matchmaking strategy.
- One-on-one guidance with Jane.
- Seven days of relationship coaching.
- Feedback-led refinement of preferences.
- Rematch support where appropriate.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- Directors and departmental heads.
- Senior managers and corporate leaders.
- Established business owners.
- Founders of growing companies.
- Senior bankers and finance executives.
- Medical consultants and senior healthcare professionals.
- Experienced lawyers and legal consultants.
- Established professionals with significant career experience.
Signature Membership
International: $550 or ₦700,000
Duration: 24 months
Introductions: Unlimited introductions during the membership period, subject to suitable candidate availability.
- Unlimited curated introductions during the membership period.
- Proactive sourcing beyond the existing database.
- Priority consideration for suitable candidates.
- Extensive compatibility assessment.
- Identity verification and additional checks where available.
- Personalised matchmaking strategy.
- Unlimited consultations with Jane during the membership period.
- Relationship and dating coaching.
- Concierge-style support.
- Enhanced confidentiality.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- CEOs and managing directors.
- C-suite executives.
- Senior corporate executives.
- Established company founders.
- Successful entrepreneurs and business owners.
- Senior medical consultants and healthcare executives.
- Senior legal practitioners.
- High-level finance and investment professionals.
- Established professionals with substantial leadership experience.
Principal Membership
International: $1,883 or ₦2,500,000
Duration: 36 months
Introductions: Unlimited introductions during the membership period, subject to suitable candidate availability.
- Unlimited curated introductions during the membership period.
- Personally managed matchmaking by Jane.
- Bespoke global candidate sourcing.
- Comprehensive verification procedures, subject to availability.
- Detailed compatibility and relationship-goal assessment.
- Personalised matchmaking strategy.
- Clarity and human-behaviour coaching.
- Executive-level relationship guidance.
- Ongoing refinement of partner preferences.
- Concierge support.
- Highest level of confidentiality offered by JanesDiary.
TYPICAL PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
- CEOs of established companies.
- Managing directors and board-level executives.
- Investors and investment professionals.
- Global entrepreneurs and business founders.
- C-suite executives.
- High-net-worth business owners.
- Senior executives in multinational organisations.
- Established professionals with significant business interests.
- Internationally based professionals and entrepreneurs.
Shared parenting.
A child-centred commitment.
You may want to become a parent without entering a romantic relationship. That deserves an honest conversation about what raising a child together would mean.
JanesDiary is welcoming expressions of interest from adults exploring intentional platonic co-parenting: having and raising a child together, with no expectation of romance or marriage between the parents.
The focus is the child’s wellbeing and the adults’ willingness to share responsibility, communicate respectfully and plan for the long term.
Expressions of interest · Enquiries onlyStart with your preferred name, location and contact preference. Please do not send identity documents, medical records or financial documents with your initial enquiry.
Agree on the essentials.
Explore expectations around caregiving, education, faith, culture and the home environment you want a child to experience.
Talk beyond the idea.
Discuss time, finances, location, communication and how future relationships or life changes could affect parenting.
Take time to prepare.
Independent legal advice and appropriate reproductive healthcare consultations belong in the planning process before proceeding.
Your Information Deserves Care
Matchmaking involves personal information. Read the policies and guidelines before submitting your details so you understand how the process works.
Clear Expectations
Understand the membership process, fees, limits and responsibilities before committing.
Responsible Introductions
Be honest about your identity, relationship status, intentions and preferences throughout the process.
Confidentiality
Review the privacy policy to understand how personal information is handled. No matchmaking service can promise absolutely risk-free interactions.
Success Stories
Explore the experiences and stories shared by people connected with the JanesDiary community.
READ THE STORIESPrivate Relationship Consultation
Get dedicated space to discuss your relationship questions, expectations and next steps before making a decision.
EXPLORE CONSULTATIONSpeak With JanesDiary
Contact the team to clarify membership options, the application process or the service available to you.
CONTACT USBefore You Begin
How do I join JanesDiary Matchmaking Network?
Submit your application through the official application page. Follow the instructions provided for profile review, membership selection and any required verification.
Does membership guarantee that I will get married?
No. Matchmaking facilitates introductions; compatibility, mutual interest and relationship outcomes depend on the people involved.
Are the introductions unlimited on premium plans?
Where a plan states unlimited introductions, these remain subject to active membership, suitable candidate availability, compatibility, the published terms and any applicable service conditions.
Can Nigerians living abroad apply?
International applicants can enquire about available membership options, eligibility and current fees before applying.
Why are client testimonials anonymous?
We respect clients’ preference for discretion. These messages are presented without names or identifying details, and have been lightly edited for clarity.
What is platonic co-parenting?
In this context, it means two adults choosing to have and raise a child together without an expectation of romance or marriage between them. It requires thoughtful planning around the child’s wellbeing and their shared responsibilities.
Can I register my interest in co-parenting?
Yes. Use the co-parenting enquiry section to email your interest or contact the team on WhatsApp. We are gathering enquiries while developing the process. No co-parent introductions or payments are offered through this section.
Is co-parenting included in matchmaking membership?
No. The co-parenting enquiry pathway is separate from our romantic matchmaking memberships. Registering interest does not enrol you in a paid package or guarantee an introduction.
Where can I read the rules and privacy policy?
Use the policy links below to review the terms and guidelines before submitting your application or payment.
Know the Process Before You Begin
